Number 1 on my list is honesty, good communication, followed closelyby respect. obviously he has to love me for who I am. There's also security I need to know I have that. I want to be in a loving relationship, but I also need my independence. I like my man to be strong and supportive, and at the same time gentle and romantic.
The one thing that pains me is, that in past relationships I've met men, I fall for them and I fall hard, only to realise after a while, the feelings they had for me were'nt love, just lust. This brings the problem that further along in the relationship, they decide they want me to change, they try to mould me into someone that pleases them, and I was like play doh, I would bend in all directions trying to be what they wanted.
I'm in a solid relationship now, but my partner still thinks he has the power to change me, but I'm older and wiser now. As much as we love each other, I still have to remind him that I don't bend anymore, I still compromise, but I'm me and he needs to understand that.
So in summary for all you men out there, to me a good solid relationship needs all of the above, I also believe strong confident women don't need a man to make them feel complete, they are happy with themselves, and in the long run are going to have stronger and more successful relationships.
If you'd like to give your opinion on this subject feel free to leave a comment, and I'll post it, if you want me to, I'd love to hear it.
For the men out there your turns coming soon I'll have to a little research first.
4 comments:
So true, Great post, thanks for that!
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